ADHD in Children: A Complete Guide for Parents in the UK
At Atypically, we know that many parents search for answers when they notice their child struggling with focus, attention, or behaviour. One of the most common neurodevelopmental conditions affecting children today is ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). Understanding ADHD can help you support your child, seek the right assessments, and access the guidance they need to thrive.
This article is a complete guide for parents about ADHD, what it means, signs to look out for, and how to access support through both NHS and private routes.
ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects both children and adults. It impacts attention, concentration, and self-control. ADHD is not a result of poor parenting or laziness—it’s a brain-based condition that affects the way individuals process information and respond to their environment.
There are three main types of ADHD:
1. Predominantly Inattentive Type – difficulty staying focused, forgetfulness, disorganisation.
2. Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive Type – high activity levels, difficulty sitting still, impulsive decisions.
3. Combined Type – a mix of inattentive and hyperactive/impulsive traits.
Children with ADHD can present in many different ways, but common signs include:
- Difficulty paying attention to details or following instructions
- Frequently losing items such as school equipment, books, or clothing
- Appearing not to listen when spoken to directly
- Struggling to sit still in classrooms or during meals
- Talking excessively or interrupting others
- Impulsivity, such as acting without thinking of the consequences
- Emotional regulation difficulties, such as frustration or outbursts
It’s important to note that many children may show some of these behaviours occasionally, but for children with ADHD, the challenges are more persistent and significantly impact daily life. You can use our free ADHD and Autism Screener to see if your child may benefit from an assessment.
Getting a formal ADHD assessment is crucial if you suspect your child may have the condition. An assessment provides:
- Clarity and understanding of your child’s challenges
- Access to school support, such as Individual Education Plans (IEPs) or reasonable adjustments
- Tailored strategies for home and learning environments
- Options for treatment, including behavioural strategies, coaching, and in some cases, medication
Without an assessment, children may go unsupported, leading to difficulties in education, relationships, and mental health.
Many families face NHS waiting lists of 12–24 months for ADHD assessments or even longer. For parents who want answers sooner, private ADHD assessments offer a faster route.
At Atypically, we help parents find trusted clinicians who specialise in private ADHD assessments across the UK. A private assessment usually includes:
- Clinical interviews with parents and child
- Questionnaires and rating scales for home and school
- Review of developmental history
- A comprehensive written report with recommendations
The report can often be used to inform schools and, in some cases, support referrals back into NHS services.
A diagnosis is just the beginning. With the right support, children with ADHD can flourish. Key areas of support include:
- School-based support: Adjustments to learning, extra time, or help with organisation.
- Parent training: Programmes that provide practical strategies for managing ADHD behaviours at home.
- Therapies: Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) or coaching for children and parents.
- Medication: In some cases, stimulant or non-stimulant medications can help manage symptoms.
At Atypically, we know the journey to diagnosis can feel daunting. We simplify the process by helping parents connect with trusted professionals for private ADHD assessments. Our goal is to give families faster access to the answers and support they need.
With Atypically, you can:
- Find local ADHD specialists
- We will find you a reputable, trusted assessor to remove the stress of researching yourself
- Get clarity about the assessment process
ADHD is a lifelong condition, but with the right support, children with ADHD can thrive academically, socially, and emotionally. Early recognition and assessment are key. Whether through NHS services or private ADHD assessments, understanding your child’s unique needs will help them unlock their potential.
If you’re ready to take the next step, explore private ADHD assessments with Atypically today.
Written by Ben Friedman, Founder of Atypically.
Ben has years of first hand experience as a father of an autistic son and a SEND advocate. All content is thoroughly researched to help parents to be as informed as possible when navigating private assessments and meaningful interventions for their neurodiverse children. Ben also holds a CPD Accredited Certification in the Treatment and Management of Additional Needs Children with Neurodevelopmental Disorders.
With NHS waiting lists now taking up to 2 years in some areas for a final diagnosis, now is the time to get your child the help they need. By going private, you can cut the waiting time down to a few weeks instead and it it doesn't cost as much as you might think!
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